Wedding rings - Don’t feel second best

Wedding rings are symbolic of the union of two people – unfortunately, not all those unions go to plan. Divorce is common, but the statistics show those who are married have longer, healthier and happier lives - a strong incentive for divorcees not to turn their back on the traditional institution. In fact, it’s becoming increasingly common for divorcees to re-marry. But no matter how much in love you are, it can feel difficult. If you don’t spend time investing in wedding rings that are unique to you, it can make the divorcee feel second best.
 

With these wedding rings – I thee wed

It’s been dubbed the ‘bride and prejudice’ syndrome. You’re the second wife (or even the third or fourth) to a man you’re madly in love with. But if he scrimps on the wedding rings and is reluctant to do the full-on white wedding, it can make you feel like you’ve missed out. If your groom has children from his previous relationship, you can add to that the contact time or custody issues, the on-going legal and emotional obligations he has to his children, and the small question of whether or not a substantial amount of his income goes to his previous family. The wedding rings may sound like a small part of all this, but if the groom-to-be puts effort and thought into the wedding rings it could be just what his bride-to-be needs.
 

Exchanging wedding rings – time to commit

In many instances, divorcees are unwilling to remarry, especially if they’ve come out of a difficult union. But if it’s the man who has had a previous wife, being married is important for many women. Marriage gives a sense of emotional as well as financial security and exchanging wedding rings is the ultimate in commitment. Battle over school fees and alimony with the ex can only make the new woman feel embittered at not coming first. Exchanging wedding rings shows that she is valued and also gives the security of ‘a future’ for the relationship.
 

New wife, new life

But it takes more than the giving of wedding rings. Once married, it’s vital the new couple have strategies to deal with the ex or any feelings of being second best. Such a problem has been highlighted by the establishment of the British Second Wives Club, where second wives meet and share about sometimes feeling second best.

Second wives have a bad press – often seen as predatory man hunters who replace the dutiful first wife. The trophy label or wicked stepmother image still prevail. So if you’re exchanging wedding rings for the second time, make sure your new wife knows she’s not second best.
 

Buy your wedding ring from the Jewellery Company

The Jewellery Company has a wide range of wedding rings to suit all tastes and budgets. From plain gold bands to contemporary diamond rings, you can find your perfect wedding rings and order online.

Set in tasteful ring boxes and with free UK delivery, The Jewellery Company is the perfect place to find wedding rings for your big day. For more information, browse our website, or call us on 0800 023 2283